The above post is an excerpt from Frank’s New Zealand Player, Parent and Coach Summit. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
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The above post is an excerpt from Frank’s New Zealand Player, Parent and Coach Summit. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
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The above post is an excerpt from Frank’s New Zealand Player, Parent and Coach Summit. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
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The above post is an excerpt from Frank’s New Zealand Player, Parent and Coach Summit. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
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The following post is an excerpt from The Tennis Parent’s Bible. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
Tournament play is a terrific way to document your player’s strengths and weaknesses. The best way to improve is to strengthen strengths and eliminate weaknesses. Lack of knowledge of match play strengths and weaknesses is a huge waste of time, money and emotion. Be pro-active and chart your player’s matches or hire your coach to chart the match.
Event:
Date:
Opponent:
Ranking:
Conditions:
Match Time:
Pre-Match Preparation:
For each of the below Pre-Match Preparation details, identify the degree of accomplishment. Such as Didn’t Bother, Gave a Little Effort or Gave 100% Effort;
Pre-Match Performance Goals:
Match Score:
Parent/Coach Assistance:
Post Match Analysis:
Personally grade your satisfaction of your performance in the following 20 areas:
(Worst rated 1 through the best rated 10)
My Top 3 Areas to Improve:
Additional Match Notes:
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The following post is an excerpt from The Tennis Parent’s Bible. Thanks for visiting, Frank Giampaolo
QUESTION:My son says I’m negative. How do I push him nicely?
Frequently, parents get fixated on what our junior “world beater” is doing wrong, what they need to change, need to learn or need to improve! Because we are so focused on our child’s success, we often become preoccupied with only seeing their faults.Focus on putting a positive spin in your approach as you gently guide your child through the “wars” of junior tennis.
Here are three ways you can apply your positive influence:
The fact is many youngsters only hear their parent’s negative comments and ignore positive comments. It is important to acknowledge your child’s efforts to improve.
SPECIAL NOTE: Here’s an eye opening or I should say “ear” opening trick. Place a recorder in your pocket.
Record a few training sessions and self-chart your positive to negative remarks!
The following is an example of this rule. Your son’s ball toss is still too high on his serve. Instead of saying “Come on Mike…You are still tossing too high…How many stinking times do I have to tell you!” say “Hey, this is great, your toss is a lot lower. I knew you could make this easy change! Keep working and you will see your consistency really grow!” The positive approach actually gets results as you keep your relationship from getting negative and jaded.
Assist your child in focusing on the good things about their life. Problems and difficulties will always be present. It is very important for your child to feel grateful about their life opportunities.
FUN FACT: There is a world of difference between “I have to play tennis today” and “I get to play tennis today.” By showing gratitude, both of you will be calmer, happier and more appreciative of each other and others will want to be around you because of your positive attitudes.
To summarize, replace criticisms with a more positive approach. Hard work doesn’t have to be a painful, drudgery. Yes, tennis is hard. Yes, it is a “dog-eat-dog world”, but it doesn’t have to be negative.
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