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Posted on June 27, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

THE SOFT SCIENCE OF TENNIS Available July 7th.

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“The Soft Science of Tennis is another valuable resource from Frank Giampaolo. He is knowledgeable and passionate about sharing – these two qualities demonstrate why Frank has been a top-rated presenter at the PTR International Tennis Symposium. In The Soft Science of Tennis, Frank gets the message across and reminds us what’s truly important in our coaching. Communication, Engagement, Life Skills and Character Building are what really matter in the mark we leave on our students after we are gone!”

Julie Jilly, Hilton Head, South Carolina, PTR VP Marketing/Events

 

“Frank Giampaolo once again demonstrates that he is the supreme grand master of tennis psychology. What distinguishes champions from other players is what goes on inside their minds. If you want to play better and understand the kind of training is likely to work best for you, read this. Then, read it again.”

Clinton W. McLemore, Laguna Niguel, California Ph.D., Clinical Psychology, USC

 

“Frank Giampaolo has done it again. His new book THE SOFT SCIENCE OF TENNIS is all about what REALLY matters in tennis. In a world where most players are on an endless pursuit to perfecting their strokes, Frank teaches players about the BIG picture… things that will matter in the long run. If you’re serious about improving your game and thinking outside the box… this book is for you.”

Jorge Capestany, Michigan USPTA Master professional, PTR International Master professional, Founder, CapestanyTennis.com

 

“Frank has hit another ‘ace’ with his latest book The Soft Science of Tennis. He is a wealth of information in so many areas of tennis and always does a fantastic job in addressing the needs of athletes, parents, and coaches. This book’s an amazing read touching on the hidden topics of advanced communication and personality profiling which are often missed by many coaches.”

Michele Krause, Sarasota, Florida TIA Global Education Director- Cardio Tennis

Managing Thoughts and Emotions – Part 3

Posted on June 26, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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In the heat of battle, it is important to recognize the cognitive difference between productive solutions based thoughts and the noise of unwanted contaminants.

 

When emotions are negatively controlling performance, the solution is finding a calm state of mind by applying a pre-set protocol specific to each athlete. This requires some thought. Quieting the mind and getting to a place of emotional stillness is emotional aptitude.

 

SOLUTION: Recognizing the Arousal State

A tip for athletes is to begin to acknowledge their arousal state. Be mindful. Why? Because without your knowledge … those emotions could be sabotaging your peak performance.

If most intermediate athletes could read their own minds during play, they’d be traumatized by what they find.  Without getting too “text book like,” an athlete’s state of mind is critical to control. The state of arousal can affect performance both positively and negatively. Of course, there’s a broad spectrum of negative stimuli called arousal. They range from low stimuli (under arousal) to high stimuli (over arousal). Low stimuli leads to a wandering mind and boredom. Such as thinking about the future- “Where’s the trophy going in my room?” High stimuli leads to panicking and fear without any proactive strategic thoughts. Such as hyper breathing, and going for more than the moment demands.

 

Be aware of your state of mind because it greatly impacts your performance.

The Soft Science of Tennis Industry Testimonials

Posted on June 25, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

THE SOFT SCIENCE OF TENNIS Available July 7, 2018!

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“Frank Giampaolo has a rich understanding of what it takes to be a successful tennis player.  With passion and nuance, this book provides a great many insights — especially in such more mysterious realms as emotion and character.  There’s a lot to be learned here.”

Joel Drucker, Writer for Tennis Channel and Historian-at-large for the International Tennis Hall of Fame

 

“Under pressure, we’d like to think that our athletes will rise to the occasion…they don’t. They sink to the level of their physical, mental and emotional training. The Soft Science of Tennis delves deeper than strokes and uncovers how to get the most out of each individual.”

Dr. Mark Kovacs, Atlanta Georgia, Executive Director, International Tennis Performance Association (itpa-Tennis.org) CEO, Kovacs Institute (Kovacs institute.com)

 

“From my personal ATP experience, I can honestly say I struggled with the ‘software’ part most of my tennis career. Back then there was very little information on how to develop the ‘mental or emotional muscles.’ Frank has been doing this successfully for the past decade. I 1000% believe that the ‘software’ (mental & emotional) part of tennis is as important to build as the hardware (strokes & athleticism). I highly recommend Frank’s latest book: The Soft Science of Tennis. It’s an outstanding contribution to the game. If I had Frank coaching me…I would have won way more titles on tour.”

Johan Kriek, West Palm Beach, Florida. Former Top 5 ATP, 2- Time Grand Slam Champion, owner, Johan Kriek Tennis Academy

 

“Frank Giampaolo has nailed it again in The Soft Science of Tennis. This time he has led us to see the absolutely critical importance of connecting with our students by understanding their personality profile, cognitive design and learning styles. All great teaching begins with the tools he provides. Thanks to Frank for giving them to us in this outstanding book.”

Tim Mayotte, Boston, Massachusetts, Former Top 7 ATP, NCAA Singles Champion, USTA National Coach

 

Managing Thoughts and Emotions -Part 2

Posted on June 23, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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After games, famous athletes are always asked for selfies by their adoring fans. An athlete who just won and had a terrific performance may say, “Sure! I’d be happy to!” He’s excited, cheerful and still fired up from the victory, so he smiles for the cell phone cameras and jokes with his fans. Just a few days later, that very same athlete suffers a devastating loss in which he severely under performed. After the game he yells to his fans, “NO PICTURES!” as he departs. He’s still frustrated and annoyed about the loss.

The change was the athlete’s emotional response to those performances and outcomes. Interestingly, the professional athlete controlled his emotions during both performances. It was only after the competition that he showed his emotional cards. Unfortunately, intermediate athletes let the wide range of emotions control their decisions and actions during competition.

Throughout competition, it’s not unusual to witness an intermediate athlete flow through being pleasant, to unhappy, to worried, to silly, to satisfied, to heartbroken, to defensive, to insecure, to apologetic, to fired up, to dejected, to furious, to panicky, to sorrowful, back to cheerful and pleasant. The optimal peak performance state of mind is lost in the athlete’s juggling of emotional aptitude.

 

Emotional control is just as important
as ball control in sports.

 

SOLUTION: Managing Emotions

Athletes have to practice not allowing their emotions to control their decisions and actions. Emotions distract an athlete from their competitive job description. Misplaced emotions can “kidnap” an athlete and although their bodies are still in the moment of the game, their head and heart is not … The first step toward controlling emotions is to be aware of one’s current emotional state. In athletics, they range from tranquil and calm to frustrated and angry. The intensity of these emotions will surely control the performer, if the performer doesn’t identify and control the emotions. Most often, when an athlete’s emotions run the show… their performance suffers.

It’s important for an athlete to give themselves permission to feel the negative emotions. This implies allowing cognitive and emotional flexibility. It’s normal for extreme level athletes to feel extreme emotions. The difference is not allowing negative emotions to steer the athlete into a downward spiral of poor performance.

Managing Thoughts and Emotions

Posted on June 21, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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Let’s take a deep look into how our emotional aptitude shapes how we prioritize and structure our training as well as our performances. Here is a true story of how poor emotional aptitude destroys logic.

Pre-Game Personal Sabotage

My student, Julia, is a highly intelligent Ivy League tennis star. She was set to warm up and spar a set with a higher ranked rival at the finals of the ITA Summer Circuit.

As we arrived at the tournament site, Julia asked me to stay in the car instead of doing what I was being paid to do, which was to be on-court coaching. Julia was worried that she’d look “uncool” having her coach with her, since her drilling partner was coming alone. Already, I saw that Julia’s poor emotional aptitude was destroying a real learning opportunity.

So not to add further stress, I simply reminded her to warm up quickly and get right into playing a set. After all, the practice session was scheduled to play sets and not to practice stroke production. (Julia and I had already drilled for a few hours in the morning.)

Julia’s game is built around attacking the net and shortening the points, so I wanted her to rehearse her winning style of play. They hit the court for their one hour time slot and quickly got right into a back court rallying groove. Five minutes, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, 35 minutes of simply playing catch, back and forth. (Remember- competitive tennis is a game of keep away … not catch!) Now 45 minutes into their one hour session they then began to take warm up serves, and then played one 7point tie-breaker and walked off the court.

As Julia got back into the car, I questioned her: What happened? You knew you were supposed to practice in the manner you are expected to perform, not just rally back and forth.

Julia replied: “That’s what she does in college, it’s normal for her, that’s her game. She likes to stay back and groove, so I did what she wanted instead.” I of course replied, but that is not your game. Practice matches and sparing should be used to practice and reinforce your strengths to increase your game day confidence.

 

Because of poor emotional aptitude, Julia wasted the session warming up the system that she’s not even going to be applying in her upcoming matches. Now fast forward to the next morning. Julia lost a close match missing several approach shots and key volleys. Why? Julia’s fear of confrontation over-rides her improvement and performance needs. Due to her poor emotional management, Julia chose to train without her hired coach to please her practice partner, instead of improving and building her own skills.

 

Emotional Aptitude impacts everything… It’s more important than you think …

 

In high performance sports, our thoughts, decisions and actions are first subjected to the athlete’s emotions. Each athlete’s “head space” influences a variety of opposing decisions based on feelings, not intelligence.

 

 

Responsibility and Accountability Part 3

Posted on June 15, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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SOLUTION: Observing World Class Coaches

If you aren’t financially in a position to hire world-class coaches, contact them and explain your circumstance. Ask them if you can stop by, sit and quietly observe them working with their high-performance athletes. Also, keep in mind that most top coaches have websites, newsletters and YouTube clips available at no cost.

As I said before, emotional aptitude stems from proper training. It’s the athlete’s job to seek out the best possible resources and then customize their very own training regiments. Around the world, I see too many talented athletes wasting far too much time in stagnant group training sessions with peers who are giving minimal effort.

Responsibility and accountability are what transform a good athlete into a champion. Change occurs when an athlete chooses to bring maximum effort to their customized training regimen. Up your organizational skills and you’ll truly like the journey. More importantly, you’ll love the results!

 

Responsibility and Accountability Check List

For those “Do it yourself” types, the below checklist will assist you in maximizing athletic potential at a quicker rate.

 

  • Create Goals and Schedules

I recommend brainstorming and coming up with both short-term and long-term goals. With goals in mind, schedule daily, weekly and even yearly plans. Athletes who apply goals and schedules succeed because they know where they’re going.

  • Apply Consistent Smart Practice

To reinforce proper training, a deliberate customized developmental plan is critical. Training sessions should focus on what needs to be improved versus grooving what is comfortable. Specific goals need specific plans.

  • Hire a High I.Q. Teacher

Seek out the most qualified expert you can find who understands the emotional component. Athletes actually save time and money by hiring an expert. While the experienced teacher’s hourly rate may be higher, they’ll access your greatness ten times faster.

  • Utilize Video Analysis

It is important to understand that a large majority of competitive failures are a result of poor emotional aptitude, which is only brought to light through game day video replay. You have to learn why you lose before you can learn how to win.

  • Repetition of Protocols

Repetition of the same actions making it an automatic reflex. This may mean working on a specific physical, mental or emotional protocol for 30 minutes every day for a month. It’s not uncommon to have a two-year action plan while developing unnatural components.

  • Practice Doesn’t Make Perfect – Practice Makes Permanent

A common pitfall of intermediate athletes is grooving their flawed mechanics. This essentially is motor programing inefficient technique, which ultimately results in countless wasted hours of training with no improvement in sight.

  • Be Patient

Nurturing new skills require patience. Athletes should be reminded that it likely took years and years to develop their fundamental skill sets. Anything and everything that is new is often perceived as difficult before it becomes easy. Enjoy the process.

 

 

Responsibility and Accountability Part 2

Posted on June 15, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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SOLUTION: Studying Successful Role Models

A terrific solution to becoming more responsible is to observe athletes who successfully perform at a higher level. This could be accomplished live or via YouTube. Emulate their work ethic, their demeanor, their schedule and their training methodology.

Intermediate athletes will quickly see that the winners approach their development very differently. Here are the criteria I see around the globe with high achievers:

  • They don’t rely exclusively on group training. Most often, elite athletes customize their developmental plan and schedule time to focus on their own priorities.
  • They care desperately and strive for weekly improvement.
  • They organize their schedule, developing every component needed to excel.
  • Top athletes hire an entourage of coaching experts to assist them throughout their journey. It is common for an elite athlete to have a team of technical/mechanical coaches, fitness gurus, mental/emotional experts, nutritionists, and physiotherapists, as well as a logistical manager.
  • Top athletes place their sport above their social calendar.

 

While recreational hobbyist may still want to maximize their potential at the quickest rate, they may not choose to invest so heavily in their chosen sport.

 

Responsibility and Accountability

Posted on June 8, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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In athletic competition, accountability is twofold.
It’s not only what we choose to do but what we choose not to do.

 

Coaching an athlete isn’t only about teaching the techniques of the sport. It also involves motivating athletes to drop their “conditions.”  These are their creative excuses for not training the way they should be training. It’s their escape mechanism. Competitors of all ages use the excuse of injury, time restraints or simple arrogance for not training properly. It’s their way of liberating themselves from responsibilities.

In our continuing observational study, I asked Evan and Jarrod about some of the creative excuses they’ve used for not training properly. Here’s what they came up with:

  • “I would go for my run today but it’s raining outside.”
  • “I would train but my friends are coming over tonight.”
  • “I can’t work out before school because there’s no time.”

Another common creative excuse is blaming others. Here’s what the twins have to say about the blame game:

  • “My teacher gave me too much homework this week and so I can’t train today.”
  • “It’s not my fault I can’t train, my trainer worked me too hard and now I’m injured.”
  • “I can’t play points again today after practice because I’m hanging out with my friends.”

 

SOLUTION #10: Stop Defending Old Bad Habits

When athletes stop avoiding the work and begin to rise to the occasion an emotional breakthrough takes place and confidence is born. Daily accountability separates the dreamers from the doors. I’ve found that some athletes have to be trained to stop defending their old comfortable bad habits. If they’re still defending them, they have no motivation to quit them. It takes honesty and courage to walk away from self-destructive, unproductive behavior. What is stopping most of us from incredible success is the unwillingness to drop the old, bad habits.

Handling Adversity- Part Four

Posted on June 1, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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Hardships in sports prepare you for the Real World

There is no success in high-performance sport without hardships. Hardships are actually the lessons needed to prepare athletes for success in the real world.

Strength doesn’t come from winning, it comes from the battle.

 

A study published in The Journal of Personal & Social Psychology reported that individuals who experience normal adverse events have better overall mental health than individuals with no real history of misfortune. I’ve found this same scenario to be true with athletes. Many talented athletes who are coddled and pampered by parents and coaches in their youth have difficulty in handling adversity in their teens. These junior athletes are sheltered from the exact problem-solving skills they need in order to thrive at the higher levels. This lack of resiliency is an especially important life skill needed for success. In a sense, resiliency is like a “psychological immune system” which aids athletes in coping with the hardships that come with competing at the higher levels of sports.

 

“What doesn’t Kill you… makes you stronger”

                                                         Friedrich Nietzsche

 

Coaches and parents of athletes should be fostering resiliency on a daily basis. I suggest that you re-visit your test scores in section one and customize your developmental pathway.

 

Life skills Transcend Sports

My daughter, Sarah was a top tennis player in her teens.  She won ten National titles, was ranked #1 in the US and played the US Open by age 15. One of her emotional skills developed through sports was perseverance. Fast forward 10 years and she calls me, “Dad, I just closed a half a million dollar deal- in my new sales position.  OMG, this is so much easier than pro tennis! I just called the CEO every Tuesday for two months and BINGO! ”

Handling Adversity- Part Three

Posted on May 26, 2018 by in Emotional Aptitude in Sports

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Question: Why do athletes need to experience gamesmanship?

Evan: Well, gamesmanship tactics teach you that if you don’t stay in your performance side of your brain, you’ll get sucked into your opponent’s drama. Not all gamesmanship is cheating. Legal gamesmanship is part of the art of winning.

Jarrod: OMG, I get cheated almost every tournament. I get to the point where I don’t care about the game… I just want to punch’em in the face! Remember that time I got into it with Lorenzo?

 

Question: How do you spot an athlete struggling with adversity?

Evan: Well, I look for nonverbal communication… You know, body language and facial expressions. A dominating opponent with positive body language is inflating their energy and systematically deflating yours. In competition, I work hard on presenting myself as the alpha male.

Jarrod: Dude, he asked about spotting emotionally weak opponents… Geez! I’m good at spotting those meek kids. I’m the intimidator, not the intimidated! Often against emotionally weaker guys, the outcome is decided before the game even starts. I love it when the other dude has slumped shoulders, looks down, talking to the floor, as we prepare for the match. You can see and feel their look of surrender a mile away.

 

Question: Why is emotional aptitude important in high-performance sports?

Evan: Your opponent isn’t always just the other competitors. It’s between the ears. It’s battling your own demons. Sometimes half of me is saying “Keep Fighting” but the other half is saying “Forget it… They’re too good.”

Jarrod: My old coach taught me that if your fundamentals are better and if you’re the stronger athlete… You’ll win. I used to believe him but now… I’m not so sure. Does needing emotional training from a coach means I’m weak?