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QUESTION: Why is avoiding performance anxiety in practice bad?
Frank: Avoiding stress in practice only magnifies a player’s performance anxiety during future competition. This avoidance keeps competition scary and uncomfortable and fuels the athlete’s lingering self-doubt.
“Players are actually increasing their anxieties by dodging their fears.”
Every time a player sidesteps their issues, the thoughts of possible failure multiply into a serious lack of confidence and self-esteem. Their apprehension and fear of competition will actually increase until they agree to stop avoiding their fears.