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“Free” Athletic College Scholarship?

Posted on March 30, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Hidden Costs of “Free” Athletic College Scholarship

For many parents and athletes, the dream of securing a college athletic scholarship feels like the ultimate reward—years of hard work culminating in the chance to attend college “for free.” However, this perception is often far from reality. Athletic scholarships are not free; they result from years of financial, emotional, and time-intensive investments. Families usually begin paying it forward long before the athlete reaches college. From specialized coaching to tournament travel, the costs of developing a world-class athlete can be staggering, requiring dedication and financial sacrifice.

The financial journey starts early, with parents often enrolling their children in youth sports programs to nurture their talent. The costs of lessons, equipment, and club memberships quickly add up. In modern tennis, for example, private lessons with a world-class coach can range from $100 to $200 an hour, and a competitive junior athlete will require multiple lessons weekly. In addition, the cost of clinics, academies, racquets, restringing, and proper footwear can easily surpass $50k annually. These investments are crucial to ensure the athlete stays competitive internationally.

Travel is another significant expense. Competing in regional, national, or international tournaments is essential for gaining exposure to college recruiters, but it comes with a hefty price tag. Flights, hotels, rental cars, and tournament entry fees can add up to tens of thousands of dollars annually. Some families relocate closer to tennis hotspots such as Southern California or South Florida, adding relocation costs. These sacrifices often go unspoken but form the backbone of the athlete’s ability to compete at the highest levels.

Finally, there are the hidden costs—mental health support, physical therapy for injuries, and the emotional toll of a high-stakes athletic journey. Parents and athletes alike endure stress, long hours, and uncertainty, hoping their investment will pay off. Even when an athletic scholarship is secured, the work doesn’t stop. College athletes face grueling schedules balancing academics and sports, often requiring additional parental financial support for equipment upgrades, travel, and supplemental training. While the scholarship might cover tuition, families may realize they’ve already spent the equivalent—or more—of a college education to get there. Far from being “free,” an athletic scholarship is a testament to years of dedication, financial planning, and sacrifice.

Athletic Scholarship

Posted on March 24, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Value of the Pursuit

The Investment in High-Performance Athletes and Life Skill Mastery

Raising a high-performance athlete requires a significant financial and emotional investment, but the return on that investment is invaluable in terms of life skill development. From early childhood, competitive athletes are immersed in environments that demand discipline, time management, resilience, and adaptability.

“It’s an investment in shaping a well-rounded individual with skills that reach far beyond the athletic arena.”

Frank Giampaolo

High-performance athletes learn time management skills that normal kids rarely match. Balancing academics, training, competitions, and personal time requires them to create structure and prioritize tasks effectively from an early age. This ability to juggle competing demands prepares them for high-pressure situations in their future careers, where deadlines, multitasking, and strategic planning are critical. These athletes grow up understanding the importance of preparation and consistency, habits that carry over into all aspects of their lives.

Perhaps most importantly, high-performance athletes develop resilience and emotional intelligence. The ups and downs of competition teach them how to handle failure, manage stress, and maintain focus under pressure. They learn to adapt to challenges, work collaboratively with coaches and teammates, and persevere through setbacks. These life skills, cultivated through years of hard work and financial investment, create individuals who are exceptional in sports and well-prepared to navigate life’s complexities with confidence and competence.

Why Top-Ranked Tennis Players Bypass Traditional Admissions

While academic excellence remains crucial, universities value athletes for the unique contributions they bring to campus culture, diversity, and prestige. Top-ranked tennis players possess qualities such as discipline, resilience, and leadership, which are often equally, if not more, compelling than a perfect GPA. Moreover, their athletic achievements open doors to recruitment opportunities that traditional academic performance alone cannot access.

“In the fiercely competitive landscape of university admissions, being a top-ranked tennis player provides an edge over even the highest-achieving academic students.”

Frank Giampaolo

Universities actively seek elite athletes because they enhance their athletic programs and reputation. A top tennis player can contribute to the success of a university’s tennis team, helping to secure championships, attract sponsorships, and boost the school’s visibility.

This dual focus on athletics and academics gives these athletes a massive advantage in admissions, as they fulfill the institution’s goal of creating a well-rounded and competitive student body.

“High-GPA students, while impressive, face a crowded field of equally qualified academic peers, making it harder, if not impossible, to stand out.”

Frank Giampaolo

Universities recognize that these “high performer” traits often translate into success beyond sports, making these athletes valuable on the court and as future alumni who bring pride to the institution.

Athletic recruitment bypasses the traditional admissions pathway, giving athletes access to opportunities unavailable to the general applicant pool. With their unique ability to combine athletic success and personal discipline, top-ranked tennis players often enjoy a competitive edge in securing spots at prestigious universities.

Why High-Performance College Athletes Make Exceptional Employees

Your child is honing a work ethic that few can match, forged under the pressure of balancing academics and athletics. Their discipline, time management, and ability to perform under stress are qualities that translate seamlessly into professional success. Employers seeking candidates who can handle challenges, adapt to new environments, and work collaboratively will find college athletes uniquely equipped.

“College athletes are among the most valuable recruits in the workforce because of the unique skill set they develop during years of rigorous competition.”

Frank Giampaolo

One of the defining traits of college athletes is their work ethic. To compete at the collegiate level, athletes dedicate countless hours to training, perfecting their craft, and maintaining peak physical and mental performance. They understand the importance of persistence, long-term goal-setting, and incremental progress, all essential for navigating the demands of tomorrow’s workplaces.

Problem-solving is another key strength college athletes bring to any business. Tennis is inherently unpredictable, requiring quick thinking, adaptability, and strategic decision-making in high-pressure situations.

Athletes are trained to analyze problems in real-time, devise solutions, and execute them effectively, whether facing drama on the court or a tough decision in the boardroom. Their ability to remain composed and resourceful when stakes are high makes them natural leaders and collaborators in any organization.

“This relentless drive doesn’t disappear when their athletic career ends—it becomes a cornerstone of their professional life.”

Frank Giampaolo

College athletes understand the value of communication, mutual support, and the collective effort needed to achieve a common goal. Additionally, their experience juggling demanding schedules instills a strong sense of responsibility and accountability, making them dependable employees who thrive under pressure. High-performance college athletes are not only valuable additions to any workplace but often emerge as standout leaders and problem-solvers in their fields.

Athletic Scholarship- Buyers’ Versus Sellers’ Market

Posted on March 19, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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When addressing the college athletic scholarship process, the business analogy of the buyer versus seller’s market is easily understood. In the buyers’ market, the athlete has an advantage in the negotiations. In the sellers’ market, the college has an advantage in the negotiations. It is the parents’ job to commit to maximizing their athlete’s potential to earn a place in the money-saving buyer’s market.

WHAT IS A “BUYER’S” MARKET?

In the college athletic world, being in the “buyers” market means college coaches from prestigious universities nationwide will be begging your child to attend their schools. These athletes are not just athletes with possible potential but also proven winners.

These players and their parents have focused on developing the skills of a competitive champion from an early age. Assisting your child in building their physical, mental, and emotional toolsets early on their journey will ensure that coaches will sell you and your child on the merits of their athletic and academic programs, not the other way around.

TYPICAL CHARACTERISTICS OF AN ATHLETE IN THE BUYER’S MARKET

  • High National Ranking
  • High WTN Ranking
  • High UTR Ratings
  • Strong Moral Compass, Life Skills, and Character
  • World Class Athleticism
  • High GPA/SAT Scores

FUN FACT: On a personal note, my stepdaughter (Sarah Fansler) was ranked top in the nation and played the US Open by age 15. She won 10 USTA National Gold Balls and was awarded a full tennis scholarship at USC. Building a champion in her early teens saved us approximately $250,000 on her USC education.

If time is on your side, build it first, and they will come. Focus on developing a world-class athlete. If time is running out, college coaches will likely not be searching your child out; hence, your child will be in the “seller’ market. If so, the college search process begins now.

WHAT IS THE “SELLERS” MARKET?

In this situation, the seller’s market refers to “selling” your child’s possible athletic value to college coaches and the thousands of other talented but unproven athletes vying for the leftover scholarship funds. The word college coaches fear most is “potential.” To them, the potential is like Gold that has to be dug out of the ground. They don’t have time to excavate, clean, shape, and mold an athlete.

Please, let me be blunt: being in the seller’s market isn’t easy, as you will discover as you read through the following pages. Learning how to attract a college scholarship takes “big time” effort from both the athlete and their parents. Speaking of hard work, if you think “selling” your child’s unproven skills will be tough, that is nothing compared to writing those dreaded big checks for their education. So, I’ll repeat it, build a champion and they will come.

“BUILD IT FIRST…& THEY WILL COME”

Earning elite athletic status requires a devoted primary parent who plays an active CEO role in managing the athlete’s career. Have you ever wondered what an internet job post would look like if an athlete needed to hire a tennis parent? What would the post say? What is the job description of the person behind the curtain?

Unveiling Common Stressors

Posted on March 7, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Unveiling Common Stressors

In competition, where pressure abound, stressors are a natural part of the landscape. Stressors are the triggers that evoke emotional and psychological responses within us, often affecting our inner dialog and subsequently influencing our performance on the court. Recognizing and understanding these stressors is a pivotal step in rewiring your inner dialog for success.

Identifying Stressors in Tennis

Stressors can emerge from various sources ranging from the pressure to perform in high-stakes matches to the expectations you place on yourself. Identifying these stressors is crucial, as it allows you to proactively address them and change their impact on your mindset. Let’s dive into these common blunders:

1. Perfectionism: One Mistake And I’ve Failed: This a common personality trait associated with striving to be flawless and often involves being critical of imperfections. Playing bold requires athletes to allow some mistakes. There’s a big difference between a good error (going for the correct shot and not executing) versus attempting the wrong shot for that same situation. 

2. Catastrophizing: Blowing Things Out of Proportion: Catastrophizing involves magnifying the potential consequences of a situation to an extreme degree. It’s the voice that whispers that a missed shot or a lost set will lead to disastrous outcomes. By identifying catastrophizing patterns, you can bring a more realistic perspective to your thought process and prevent unnecessary anxiety.

3. Magnifying: Amplifying Negativity: The magnifying stressor involves blowing up minor issues into major problems, magnifying the negative aspects of a situation while downplaying the positive. This skewed perception can hinder your ability to focus on the task at hand and derail your performance.

4. Polarizing: Black-and-White Thinking: Polarizing stressors manifest  when situations are seen as either all good or all bad, with no middle ground. This type of thinking can be particularly detrimental in tennis, as it leads to an inability to adapt to changes and see the positives even when you lose the point.

Harnessing Stressors: Understand that you can’t avoid stress in competition. It’s a natural byproduct of being judged. It’s your job to accept the situation with maturity and manage the moment. As soon as you feel outcome pressure, return to your between point relaxation response. The physiological change helps lower your heart rate, calms your breathing and allows you to stop and reset.

By dismantling these stressors, you’ll break their hold on your inner dialog. This sets the stage for a powerful transformation – one that paves the way for rewiring your mental landscape. 

Tennis: Consistent Quality over Quantity

Posted on February 15, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Consistent Quality over Quantity

 Quality should always take precedence over quantity when it comes to consistent development in tennis. In this chapter we will explore why prioritizing quality off-court training and practice sessions are essential for maintaining consistent growth and performance.

1 Efficient Practice Sessions

Efficient well-structured practice sessions that target specific “situational awareness” areas of improvement yield better results.

2 Purposeful Repetition

Mindless repetition without a focused objective can be counterproductive. Athletes should purposefully be working on specific aspects of their game.

3 Deliberate Practice

This requires continuously pushing beyond your comfort zone. It involves setting challenging tasks, receiving feedback, and making targeted adjustments to refine skills.

4 Mental Engagement

Developing a focused and present mindset is wise- eliminating distractions and dedicating full attention to each hour in the gym or on the court.

5 Match Simulations

It’s your job to ask to incorporate specific match simulations into your training. Replicate the pressure conditions and scenarios you’ll likely encounter during tournament play.

6 Minimize Vulnerabilities

Consistency requires being honest about your weaknesses and dedicating focused practice time to minimize vulnerabilities. Consistently targeting and improving weaknesses builds a well rounded competitor. 

7 Maximize Strengths

Arguably, even more important than minimizing weaknesses is maximizing strengths. Plan on dedicating time to improving your weapons. After all, the bigger the weapons, the simpler the strategy.

8 Monitoring Progress

Monitor weekly progress to track improvements and make necessary adjustments. Athletes should establish measurable goals and regularly assess their performance against these objectives.

9 The Mindset of Mastery

Achieving consistent improvement involves maintaining a passion for learning. Athletes who approach their development with this mindset are more likely to leave their old comfort zone and push into their mastery zone.

10 Patience and Long-Term Perspective

Recognizing that progress may not always be linear and that development stalls and progresses throughout the journey.

“By utilizing these consistent behaviors, you’ll reframe your inner belief and confidence.”

Frank Giampaolo

Maintaining a positive attitude and a mastery mindset to develop your skills consistently is in your new job description. After all, attitude is a choice.

Tennis: Unleashing the Warrior 

Posted on February 7, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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THE ART OF EXCEEDING: VOLUME 2 RELEASING

Unleashing the Warrior 

“Athletes who conquers their inner demons are the mightiest warriors.”

The warrior within is like fire. Controlled fire can heat your home and cook your meals. However, uncontrolled fire can burn the house down. Trust the warrior within and  turn that fight into a force that serves you rather than destroying you.

1 Recognizing the Warrior 

The warrior within represents the innate desire to compete, the hunger for victory, and the fighting spirit within you. It’s the fuel that drives you to push through uncomfortable moments. However, if left unchecked, the warrior can become uncontrolled leading to impulsive decision making and erratic performance.

2 Embracing Controlled Aggression

Aggression is a double-edged sword in tennis. On one hand, controlled aggression can be a potent weapon, allowing you to take charge of the match, dictate play, and dominate opponents. On the other hand, uncontrolled aggression can lead to unforced errors, loss of focus, and emotional volatility. Learning to embrace and channel controlled aggression requires a delicate balance of intensity and composure.

3 Breath and Focus

Proper breathing is a powerful tool for centering and calming the warrior. Deep, intentional breathing helps maintain a state of focus and presence, allowing you to perform freely. By practicing mindful breathing techniques, you’ll find a sense of calm amid the storm of competition and make more clear headed decisions.

4 Playing to Strengths 

Understanding your strengths and applying them is a crucial aspect of channeling the warrior within. Identifying and capitalizing on your natural abilities, allows you to leverage those strengths and gain a competitive edge.

5 Embracing Challenges

Instead of shying away from difficult opponents or tough situations, the warrior embraces them as fun challenges and opportunities for improvement. Facing adversity head-on strengthens the warrior and cultivates mental resilience.

6 Finding Flow 

Flow is a state of optimal performance where you’re fully immersed in the match. Your actions effortlessly flowing and your minds completely absorbed in the present moment. Finding the flow state and not sabotaging it requires dancing with the angels not the devils. 

The devil wants to steal your peace of mind. A brave athlete looks the devil in the eye and tells him “NOT TODAY”. By knowing that no one you know works harder than you, you can stand your ground when the Devil’s at your door and not let them in. 

Tennis-The Subconscious vs. Conscious Mind

Posted on February 1, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Subconscious vs. Conscious Mind

“If you don’t manage your subconscious mind, your opponent will manage it for you.”

Inside every athlete lies a formidable battle between the subconscious and conscious mind. The subconscious mind operates at an instinctive level, tapping into intuition and automatic responses, while the conscious mind is analytical, judgmental, and often interferes with the flow of performance. 

1 The Power of the Subconscious Mind

The subconscious mind is a vast reservoir of knowledge, skills, and experiences that have been absorbed and stored over time. It operates effortlessly, executing movements and making split-second decisions without conscious effort. Playing “in the zone” occurs when athletes access this subconscious state, allowing their instincts and intuition to guide their actions.

2 Flow and the Subconscious Mind

Flow is a state of optimal performance where athletes feel fully immersed in their actions, time seems to slow down, and their performance reaches an extraordinary level. Flow arises when the conscious mind takes a backseat, allowing the subconscious mind to take control. To achieve flow, athletes must learn to quiet the conscious mind and trust in their abilities.

3 Staying Present

The conscious mind often dwells on past mistakes or worries about future outcomes, pulling the player out of the present moment. By staying fully present, athletes can remain connected to their subconscious mind. Techniques such as mindfulness and deep breathing, can help redirect attention to the present moment and prevent the conscious mind from taking over.

4 Trusting Intuition

The subconscious mind has a remarkable ability to process information and make split second, correct decisions based on past training experiences. Trusting this intuitive guidance is crucial for allowing the subconscious mind to take the lead.

5 Letting Go of Judgment 

The conscious mind is prone to judgment, self-criticism, and over analysis of every action. This constant evaluation can disrupt the flow state and hinder performance. Let go of judgment by focusing on the process rather than the outcome. Being performance minded, you’ll free yourself from the constraints of the conscious mind.

6 Rituals and Routines

Rituals and routines can help athletes transition into a subconscious, autopilot frame of mind. Proper pre-performance rituals create a sense of familiarity and prepare the mind for entering the flow state. Between point resetting rituals help maintain focus and keep the conscious mind at bay.

7  Repetition Of Sets 

Consistent practice matches help ingrain competitive skills such as remaining in the subconscious mind. These “dress rehearsals “ free you from minimizing the interference caused by the conscious mind. 

The battle between the subconscious and conscious mind is ongoing. Cultivate a deep awareness of this internal struggle and make a conscious effort to quiet the conscious mind, allowing the wisdom of the subconscious to guide your performance.

Tennis- The Power of Change

Posted on January 26, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Change is an inevitable force that shapes your life. It can be both exhilarating and daunting, pushing you out of your comfort zones and into uncharted territories. As a competitive tennis player, you are no stranger to change. From evolving opponents to different tournament sites, your journey is filled with constant adjustments. However, change has a deeper significance that extends beyond the tennis court.

“The moment you accept responsibility for your new actions is the moment you gain the power to change your life.”

1.1 Embracing the Dynamic Nature of Tennis

Tennis, as a sport, epitomizes the essence of change. Each match presents a unique set of circumstances, requiring you to adapt and adjust your strategies on the fly. The ability to embrace change and thrive in dynamic situations becomes a crucial asset for success on the court.

1.2 Translating Change into Personal Growth

Change is not limited to the realm of sports; it permeates every aspect of your life. By embracing change and actively seeking opportunities for reinvention, you unlock the potential for personal growth. Reinvention allows you to tap into your full potential, both as an athlete and as an individual.

1.3 Navigating Transitions

Throughout your tennis journey, you will encounter various transitions, such as moving up age divisions, transitioning to higher-level tournaments, or even making the leap from junior tennis to the professional circuit. Each transition brings with it a unique set of challenges and opportunities. By understanding the power of reinvention, you can navigate these transitions with grace and resilience.

1.4 The Growth Mentality

At the heart of reinvention lies the growth mindset- a belief that your abilities and talents are not fixed but can be developed through dedication and effort. By adopting a growth mindset, you view challenges as opportunities for growth, setbacks as valuable lessons, and losses as a necessity for success. 

1.5 Embracing Change in Life

While tennis may be the focus of your current journey, it is crucial to recognize that the principles of reinvention extend beyond the sport. The ability to adapt, learn, and grow through change will serve you in all aspects of your life. Reinvention becomes a lifelong skill that empowers you to overcome obstacles, seize opportunities, and create a life of purpose and fulfillment.

Change is not something to be feared or resisted; it is a force to be embraced and harnessed. As an athlete, reinvention is an essential tool in your arsenal. Understanding the power of change lays the foundation for a transformative, ever-improving life.

Tennis- The Fear of Losing

Posted on January 20, 2025 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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The Fear of Losing

The tennis match was reaching a critical juncture. Maria, a big, hard-hitting baseliner, was locked in a fierce battle, the score tied at five games each in the third set. Her opponent, equally determined, was giving her no room to breathe—the fear of losing another close one gnawed at Maria’s confidence.

As she got a short ball, she reluctantly transitioned to the net. Maria’s mind raced with anxious thoughts. What if I miss the volley? Where do I go? Fear took center stage as the opponent hit a high but short lob. Her confidence wasn’t there because she seldom practiced hunting and killing lobs. Maria pulled her head down early at the moment of contact and shanked the ball into the net. She became deflated as she then gifted away the winnable game.

1 The Weight of Expectations

For Maria, this fear was not just about the overhead she missed or even the outcome of the match; it was about the fear of falling short of the high expectations she had for herself. The fear of losing is a common adversary for tennis players at every level. The expectations of coaches, peers, and parents can add immense pressure to perform, often transforming competition into a burden.

2 Playing to Win vs. Playing Not to Lose

One of the most significant challenges is the fear of losing. It leads to a defensive, risk-averse style of play. Players may be trapped in a mindset of “playing not to lose” rather than “playing to win.” Maria has since learned that instead of fearing mistakes, she embraces playing to win regardless of the outcome. This shift in perspective allowed her to play with more freedom, win or lose.

3 Embracing the Process

Focus on developing your tennis identity rather than fixating on results. This process-oriented mindset allows you to concentrate on what you can control—your effort, your attitude, and your game—like Maria, you can reduce the paralyzing fear of losing.

4 Finding Joy in Competition

Scared athletes lose their joy in competition. Tennis is ultimately just a game to be enjoyed. You can rediscover the thrill of competing by freeing yourself from the fear of losing. Playing with joy improved Maria’s performance and deepened her gratitude for her life in tennis.

5 The Competent-Confidence Loop

The more you understand something like a loss, the more confidence you gain. The more confidence you gain, the more you’ll be willing to try different approaches. The more you try different approaches, the more you grow.

6 The Positive Side

At tournaments, instead of focusing on what you might lose -matches, rankings, or respect. Shift your focus to what you could gain-victory, growth, increased rankings, and better opportunities. If you have to think about the future, think about it in a positive light.

7 The Pain Principle

Some immature athletes feel that the pain of change is greater than the pain of losing. So, they choose not to change. Create reoccurring losses for the same reasons. Mature athletes feel that the pain of losing is greater, so they seek change. Change is the catalyst for growth.

“Don’t hope for easy matches; hope for the strength to endure a difficult one.”

Victory is not solely defined by the score at the end of the match. It’s about the growth, the effort, and the passion you pour into playing to win in spite of the fact that you might lose. By letting go of the fear of losing, you’ll reignite the joy of performing for the love of the game.

Tennis: Attacking Fear

Posted on December 27, 2024 by in Maximizing Tennis Potential

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Attacking Fear

It wasn’t the opponent that troubled Sarah; it was the familiar knot of fear that had taken residence in the pit of her stomach. She’d been here before, facing highly ranked opponents, and fear had caused her to choke.

As she prepared to return serve, Sarah’s mind raced with doubt. What if I make a mistake and lose this point? What if I disappoint my coach and myself? The fear of failure consumed her like it always had.

At that moment, Sarah realized that this fear, this internal adversary, was holding her back from winning another match. With this habit of running from fear, Sarah played two sloppy points, gifting away another winnable match.

This chapter is not just Sarah’s story; it’s a glimpse into the minds of countless tennis players who have stood so close to victory only to be pulled back by the invisible chains of fear.

1.1 The Nature of Fear

Fear is a powerful force that manifests in many forms under stress. It might be the fear of making mistakes and facing the consequences, the fear of losing and the disappointment it brings, or the fear of letting down those who believe in us. These fears are not unique to Sarah; they’re part of the human experience. But fear is the catalyst for growth, a signal that you’re on the brink of something extraordinary. It all depends on how you choose to respond to it.

1.2 Attacking Fear Head On

The first step in conquering fear is acknowledging its presence. Sarah learned that by recognizing her fear, she could begin to understand and control it. It was time to attack fear head-on and confront it with the same intensity that she approached in her physical training.

1.3 Expose Yourself

The more you give in to fear by thinking you can hide or run from it, the larger it looms. Fear sees every learning opportunity and every minor problem as a threat. When most detect fear, they avoid it. A champion’s job is to attack it. Reframe the consequence of fear. If you’re feeling fear, it means you’re about to do something special.

1.4 Fear Is Part of The Game

Fear is a part of the game, but it doesn’t have to be a defining factor in your competitive persona. It’s time to confront your fears, rewrite your narrative, and unleash your tennis potential. If your rivals can do it, so can you.

1.5 Reframing Fear

Think about relabeling fear as excitement. You will likely attract positive results if you’re excited about a new situation. Ask yourself: “What would I do if I wasn’t afraid?” And “What if everything goes right?”

“The bold athletes feel afraid but choose to attack that fear.”