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Discovering Your Game

Embracing Your Identity

Each individual brings a unique set of physical attributes, personality traits, and playing preferences to their game. As you progress in your journey, embrace your superpowers and tailor your performance style to align with your strengths.

“Be smart enough to find yourself and brave enough to be yourself.”

Frank Giampaolo

Building Your Identity

Staying true to yourself emphasizes the importance of authenticity in developing an identity. Training to play the systems that align with your personality profile maximizes potential. Embracing your personality enhances enjoyment and fulfillment.

Finding Your Game

Your identity begins with choosing the right style of play that fits your personality and body type. A typical battle cry from parents and coaches is, “Play Your Game!” Knowing your true identity is your game. Practicing in the manner you’re expected to perform is called “situational training.”

Training your response to typical situations requires you to know who you are? What reoccurring situations cause difficulty? Listing and embracing your unique responses to those “moment” is finding your game.

Developing Your Signature Shots and Strategies

Signature Shots and patterns are your go-to preferred plays. Exposing your strengths is a proactive approach. Everyone has signature shots; applying them on big moments is a great strategic intention. Plan on spending a lot of time strengthening your weapons.

Leveraging Innate Qualities

Identifying your strengths begins with reflecting on the four pillars (techniques, athleticism, mental and emotional). Begin by deciding to capitalize on your strengths in the four pillars of your game. Addressing weaknesses starts with an honest assessment of the game’s four pillars. Work with your coaches to design targeted training programs to overcome those weaknesses.

3.5 The Impact of Mental and Emotional Alignment

Embracing the development of your software components is a crucial aspect of peak performance. Identify and understand the strengths and weaknesses of your mental (thinking) and emotional (feeling) components. Hire an experienced mental coach to help align your playing style with your personality, which leads to quicker gains.

As you build your competitive identity, stay true to yourself. Nurture a style that brings joy and fulfillment to your game.

By combining individuality with strategic adaptability, you’ll create a distinctive playing style that sets you on the path to success in the world of high-performance.

YOUR TAKEAWAY CHALLENGE

Your athletic identity begins by choosing the right style of play that fits your personality and body type. Consider your strengths and weaknesses in the four pillars of the game: techniques, athleticism, mental, and emotional skill sets. This may be a great time to hire a mental coach to help you customize your developmental plan.

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Embracing Your Identity

THE ART OF EXCEEDING: Building High-Performance Athletes

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Frank’s New Release- The Art of Exceeding: Building High Performance Athletes is now ready to pre-order the E-book version for a Special New Release Price of Only $2.99

The following post is an excerpt from THE ART OF EXCEEDING: Building High-Performance Athletes.

Embracing Your Identity

Each individual brings a unique set of physical attributes, personality traits, and playing preferences to their game. As you progress in your journey, embrace your superpowers and tailor your performance style to align with your strengths.

“Be smart enough to find yourself and brave enough to be yourself.”

Frank Giampaolo

1 Building Your Identity

Staying true to yourself emphasizes the importance of authenticity in developing an identity. Training to play the systems that align with your personality profile maximizes potential. Embracing your personality enhances enjoyment and fulfillment.

2 Finding Your Game

Your identity begins with choosing the right style of play that fits your personality and body type. A typical battle cry from parents and coaches is, “Play Your Game!” Knowing your true identity is your game. Practicing in the manner you’re expected to perform is called “situational training.”

Training your response to typical situations requires you to know who you are? What reoccurring situations cause difficulty? Listing and embracing your unique responses to those “moment” is finding your game.

3 Developing Your Signature Shots and Strategies

Signature Shots and patterns are your go-to preferred plays. Exposing your strengths is a proactive approach. Everyone has signature shots; applying them on big moments is a great strategic intention. Plan on spending a lot of time strengthening your weapons.

4 Leveraging Innate Qualities

Identifying your strengths begins with reflecting on the four pillars (techniques, athleticism, mental and emotional). Begin by deciding to capitalize on your strengths in the four pillars of your game. Addressing weaknesses starts with an honest assessment of the game’s four pillars. Work with your coaches to design targeted training programs to overcome those weaknesses.

5 The Impact of Mental and Emotional Alignment

Embracing the development of your software components is a crucial aspect of peak performance. Identify and understand the strengths and weaknesses of your mental (thinking) and emotional (feeling) components. Hire an experienced mental coach to help align your playing style with your personality, which leads to quicker gains.

As you build your competitive identity, stay true to yourself. Nurture a style that brings joy and fulfillment to your game.

By combining individuality with strategic adaptability, you’ll create a distinctive playing style that sets you on the path to success in the world of high-performance.

From Champions to Leaders

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From Champions to Leaders

Sports and Leadership

Let’s peek into Jake and Katie’s past. Fifteen years ago, they were battling to the top of the national tennis scene. I asked them to try something revolutionary as they developed strokes and athleticism. I asked them to buy into developing their life skills, character traits, and moral compass. Their process is what I want to share with you. I asked these two youngsters if I could train them like they were already an 18-year-old college star. They agreed, and here’s their story:

1.1 Transferrable Skills

Jake wasn’t just an athlete; by age 13, he was already a strategist, problem solver, and decision-maker. A future leader was born as he honed these transferable life skills through years of practice and competition.

1.2 Beyond the Game: Life Skills

Sports, like life, demands resilience in the face of setbacks, perseverance in the pursuit of improvement, and grace in both victory and defeat. These qualities, instilled in Katie, were the building blocks of character that extended far beyond the boundaries of her tennis career.

1.3 The Foundation

Developing skills to compete successfully on the court also sets a foundation for success off the court. Skill sets such as discipline, time management, and the ability to handle pressure are foundational skills that lay the framework for sports and life.

1.4 The Moral Compass

Honesty, integrity, and respect for opponents are not just empty words; they are the guiding principles of sportsmanship. Each day, Katie nurtured the importance of fair play. This moral compass, developed and reinforced throughout her tennis career, transitioned her to her spot as the youngest CEO of a Fortune 500 company.

1.5 The Vision Ahead

There are incredible similarities between Jake and Katie’s tennis and their future leadership success. Let’s look deep into the principles, ethics, and responsibilities that accompany leadership in sports. You’ll explore the skills that champions acquire, and leaders live by.

1.6 Developing Soft Skills

The following lists a dozen hidden skills that winners like Jake and Katie possess. Throughout your years developing your athletic skills, it’s wise to look into these invaluable tools to help you along your journey from an athletic champion to a happy, successful leader in life:

  1. Active Listening and Empathy
  2. The Ability to Inspire Others
  3. Flexibility and Adaptability
  4. The Ability to Build Trust
  5. Strong Communication Skills
  6. Positivity And Reliability
  7. The Ability to Motivate Others
  8. Connecting With Others Authentically
  9. Recognize Others’ Achievements
  10. Leading By Example and Creating Unity
  11. Open And Transparent Communication
  12. Gratitude, Appreciation, Caring and Kindness

Take a few moments to think deeply about these soft skills and how they’ll help you maximize your potential.

As you look into the past of Jake and Katie, this playbook will inspire and empower you to be accountable because you’ve got the potential for this type of future as a top leader. Look into your future. Fifteen years from now, these experiences will have shaped the course of that amazing leader that you’ll see when you look in the mirror.

YOUR TAKEAWAY CHALLENGE

Look back to 1.6 in From Champions to Leaders, Developing Soft Skills. On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you grade yourself on these skill sets? Being a leader in sports and life requires these invaluable tools.

The Morning Mastery Plan

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The Morning Mastery Plan

CHAPTER 1: Waking Up Hungry for Success

When you wake up early with dreams in mind, you’re priming yourself for success. In the early morning, productive athletes get right to work making those dreams tomorrow’s reality. They do mental training, research solutions, and get organized as they map out their day. Let’s uncover how you’ll get more done in the morning than most peers do all day.

Take the “early bird challenge” and jump ahead of your rivals. Following are the top 10 benefits of waking up early in the morning for a anyone looking to get ahead of their peers:

Increased Productivity

    Waking up early allows you to start your day with an optimistic mind, leading to improved focus and higher productivity in your studies and training.

    Time for Exercise

    Early mornings provide an excellent opportunity to engage in physical workouts, which can help elevate your day’s performance.

    Better Time Management

    Early risers have more control over their schedules, allowing them to allocate time more efficiently for academics, work, and other activities.

    Quiet Study Environment

    Mornings tend to be quieter, providing a peaceful atmosphere for researching solutions without distractions.

    Enhanced Mental Clarity

    Waking up early helps you tap into your mental clarity, allowing for improved learning, problem-solving, and decision-making throughout the day.

    Gratitude Routine

    Consistent early wake-up times contribute to stable mental health. Writing in a gratitude journal helps to start the day with an optimistic, appreciative mindset.

    Time for Goal Setting

    Quiet mornings are perfect for setting daily goals, planning tasks, organizing equipment and aligning priorities for the day ahead.

    Nutritious Breakfast

    Starting your day early allows you to have a balanced breakfast, which is essential for fueling your body and mind for the demanding challenges ahead.

    Reduced Stress

    Adequate morning time means you can begin your day calmly, reducing stress and anxiety.

    Competitive Edge

      By waking up early, you gain extra hours to invest in self-improvement, training, and studies, giving you a competitive edge over peers who might not utilize their mornings as effectively.

      Early risers are usually more productive, not just because they wake up early, but because they apply smart goal setting. Hitting early morning improvement goals is the beginning of a hyper-productive day. It’s easier to wake up excited when you know your goals and what’s in store. As a result, your productivity increases tenfold, and you’ll start to maximize your potential at a quicker rate.

      YOUR TAKEAWAY CHALLENGE

      Skyrocketing past your rivals requires that you do what they’re not doing and do what you’re not doing. Take a moment and think about all the benefits of waking up early and getting a jump on the competition. Productive mornings start productive days, and productive days become productive weeks. This playbook is designed to get you ready to start maximizing your potential.

      The Philosophy of Competition

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      The Philosophy of Competition

      INTRODUCTION

      This Playbook, The Philosophy of Competition, illuminates the inner world of competition. By exploring the wisdom of the ancient Stoics, you’ll navigate competition challenges with clarity and composure, enhancing your personal growth.

      The ancient Stoic philosophers provided valuable insights into the underlying nature of modern-day competition. By embracing stoic principles, you can change how you engage in competition, ensuring that it becomes a source of growth, self-improvement, and, ultimately, fulfillment.

      Stoicism, a school of philosophy originating in ancient Greece, offers valuable insights into how you’ll navigate competitions in the future. The Philosophy of Competition encourages you to cultivate these ancient virtues in your progression into the higher levels of the sport.

      Discovering Your Game

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      Discovering Your Game

      CHAPTER 1: The Foundation of Talent

      Recognizing that a combination of factors shapes the path to greatness is essential. While grit, patience, and great coaching play a significant role, it is equally important to acknowledge the role of genetics in developing your talent. Let’s explore the science involved in shaping your identity. The fascinating world of genetic predispositions lays the foundation of your inborn talents that you’ll apply in customizing your systems for success.

      1.1 The Role of Genetics in Abilities

      Genetics, the blueprint of life, holds information that dictates your physical, mental, and emotional attributes. Genetic factors significantly impact performance in the realm of any high performer. As we look at renowned athletes across various sports, it becomes evident that particular genetic traits contribute to their success.

      1.2 Physical and Mental Attributes

      From a physical standpoint, genetic factors like height, body composition, and muscle fiber type impact your style of play. For instance, a sport requiring explosive movements favors a person with a higher proportion of fast-twitch muscle fibers. Genetics also influence your hand-eye coordination, balance, and agility. From the mental side, genetics are linked to your cognitive abilities and decision-making skills. There’s also a connection between genetics and mental resilience during high-pressure situations. Genetics plays a role in your temperament and patience in your daily performance.

      1.3 Identifying Genetic Traits

      Recognizing your traits can provide valuable insights into your development. Athletes within the same peer group all possess different physical, mental, and emotional attributes. For example, Josh is extremely patient. Rebecca’s natural quickness aids in her coverage. Peter is impatient, so his tolerance is low. Discovering your inborn talents is key to organizing your development and athletic identity.

      1.4 Inheriting Traits

      Physical, mental, and emotional genetic characteristics often pass on from generation to generation. Heredity plays a role in your “make-up.” Understanding your genetic predisposition increases the likelihood of developing strengths and improving weaknesses. For example, If Kelly’s father has ADHD, she may also possess inherited focus concerns.

      1.5 Nature’s Impact on Athleticism

      Certain genetic predispositions shape your talents. Genetics play a role in your height, coordination, and movement capabilities. It drives your unique metabolism and recovery speed and is responsible for your predisposition to injuries. There’s a fascinating relationship between your genetic traits and the synchronization of your brain-body connection.

      1.6 Leveraging Your Genetic Advantage

      Customization of your physical, mental, and emotional training is critical. Research shows that matching one’s style of performance with their genetic predisposition produces three times better results than those with mismatched training plans. It’s obvious that the old-school, one-size-fits-all approach to training is obsolete.

      While genetics lays the groundwork for your potential, remember that genetic factors do not solely determine success. Hard work, determination, and the correct nurturing environment provided by coaches and family play an equally critical role. Recognize and leverage your genetic advantages and train within your genetic blueprint. By combining nature and nurture, you’ll set the path to maximizing your potential.

      YOUR TAKEAWAY CHALLENGE

      Individuals possess very different strengths and weaknesses, whether physical, mental, or emotional skill sets—plan on customizing your developmental plan based on your genetics. Every athlete has a genetic blueprint that significantly influences their style, approach, and decision-making under pressure. Consider looking into your brain type and body type. It will surely make a difference in maximizing your potential.

      INTRODUCTION TO THE ART OF EXCEEDING

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      The Art of Exceeding-Building High Performance Athletes.

      INTRODUCTION TO THE ART OF EXCEEDING:
      Building High-Performance Athletes

      PLAYBOOK SERIES

      The Art of Exceeding playbooks are not just another set of resources. They are a unique compilation of short books that draw upon 2000 years of stoic wisdom, sports psychology, and 35 years of coaching experience. These playbooks are designed to develop the mental strength essential for high performance, providing breakthrough resources and a shared language for anyone interested in maximizing their potential in sports and life. They empower athletes with the mental tools needed to thrive in the competitive world of high-performance sports.

      For too long, the sports teaching world has focused on hardware development, neglecting the crucial aspects of software development, mental and emotional. The Art of Exceeding playbooks aim to bridge this gap by providing the mental training necessary to enhance athletic performance. But it doesn’t stop there. This training also cultivates life skills, positive character traits, and a moral compass that’s genuinely needed to excel in sports and life.

      The Art of Exceeding, Volume 1, presents five transformative topics, each unlocking a different facet of software skills. In Discovering Your Game, readers embark on a journey of self-discovery, uncovering their unique, inborn strengths and weaknesses to optimize performance. The Philosophy of Competition delves into why some athletes wilt under pressure while others thrive- illuminating how mindset shapes our approach to challenges. The Morning Mastery Plan offers a blueprint for starting the day with purpose and intention, setting the stage for success in every endeavor. The Paradox of Habits challenges conventional thinking, exploring how to harness choices, habits, and routines to ignite improvement. Finally, From Champions to Leaders transcends individual success, guiding athletes towards becoming inspirational leaders who shape their teams and communities. With these first five playbooks, The Art of Exceeding empowers individuals to master their minds and set the stage for future success.

      Throughout The Art of Exceeding playbooks, you’ll notice the repetition of the most important topics. Planting and replanting these essential components into your subconscious mind helps you develop a solid base from which to draw.

      Welcome to your new way of life as an elite, high-performance athlete!