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True Happiness Stems From Progress
“Seek daily progress versus daily perfection.”
As crazy as it sounds, true happiness doesn’t always come from winning. It comes from performing at one’s peak potential under pressure.
Did you ever win a match against a player whose ability was levels below yours? It wasn’t truly satisfying, was it? Did you ever compete against a player whose ability was several levels above yours and you played amazingly, only to lose in a tightly contested battle? Remember walking away proud of your performance?
Choosing to feel passionate about performance as opposed to the outcome opens the doors to progress. Only with constant progress is consistent victory insight.
Let’s do a comparative analysis: 32 girls play a weekend soccer match and 16 players go home losers, and 16 go home winners. The same weekend 32 girls play a junior tennis tournament and one player wins, and 31 go home losers.
Tennis families that are only happy if they win the whole event are not likely enjoying the journey.
